2004“This story happened a long time ago when I was a Goth. I used to live in Sweden, we used to go out dancing, and I used to dress up in drag. On one occasion I was dancing and this guy taps me on the shoulder. Turns out he’s this guy who plays in this band called Spock.

“He asks about my friend, asking if she was available. I said she had a boyfriend. I told her this on the way home. She said ‘You did what?’ and is really angry. She dumps her boyfriend to get together with this guy, they’ve got two kids.

”When I met up with him when he was sober, after a few times, he picked up the courage to tell me this.”

Taken in Hoxton, London, UK at a drinks meetup for the Irreverent Dance group.